When Betty first arrived here my friend and pet psychic Carrie Kenady came over and did a session with me and Betty. The first thing Betty said to me was “where have you been….I’ve been waiting for you my whole life”. All I could say was “right here…waiting for you beautiful girl.” Betty is a perfect girl…she is a pleasure to live with every day. This poor girl has the worst spondylosis in her back that her vets have ever seen…it is getting harder and harder to manage. We recently tried adding Gabapentin to try to help with her discomfort…that unfortunately was a no go for Betty.
This week I packed her up and we drove to Louisville for a visit with Dr. Betty (Boswell). Dr. Betty did some acupuncture magic and some special laser and some ultra sound.
Betty was so relaxed during her treatment she was snoring (well snoring and gassing). I love my Betty so much…pulling out all the stops I can think of to give her the best quality of life. If I could buy her a new back I would sell everything I have to get her one.
Life here is always busy…one of my Misfits always needs something…or is getting in to something…or we are running to appointments…or just dealing with the demands of running two businesses to support them all. But each day is a joyful one. I would not trade this life for anything. Hopefully next week I will posting pictures of roses…my rose bushes are on fire this year…covered with buds just waiting to open!
It was in the mid-80’s today…summer is here in Kentucky! That means pool pawties and doggie ice cream and all sorts of summer fun! I can’t wait to spoil them all rotten!
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Trudy arrived here in one of the more difficult circumstances…at least in terms of adjusting to her new life at Misfit Manor. Being both blind and deaf she had so much to get used too…large yard and house…and lots of dogs.
In the house Trudy adjusted really quickly! She memorized the lay out of the house really fast…impressive! She runs around this house like she owns it…and she does not run in to anything (unless I stupidly leave something out of place).
Outside of the house though is a different story…its a big scary world for a pint sized blind and deaf dog. I am perfectly fine if Trudy is happy living her life going no where but Misfit Manor….she can have a full life here. But I also felt like I owed it to her to see if she has a flair for adventure.
I saw on ad on Facebook for a “halo” for blind dogs and thought we have to give this a try. I have been working with Trudy for several days getting her acclimated to her new halo.
I only worked with her when we were outside of the house. I want her to know that putting on her halo means its time for an adventure.
The halo comes in 3 pieces; the harness, the padded wings and the actual halo.
I took time to let her adjust to wearing each piece in small steps.
Step 1 was the harness…would seem easy but I am not sure Trudy has ever had a harness on because she had a bit of fit initially. I put it on and took it off her several times in a row…treating her profusely every time it went on. I did this several times a day for several days…she now could care less if she has a harness on.
Step 2 was the wings (that the halo itself actually attaches too). That was pretty smooth…she really didn’t mind the addition of the wings. They are super light so I am not sure she really noticed them much. I only introduced either piece when we were outside of the house.
Step 3 was the actual halo. I attached the halo to the wings before I put the wings on her. The halo is so light that I highly doubt she knew it was there until it actually functioned for her. I had to bend her halo to make it longer to be a good fit for the longer snout of a dachshund…it came more rounded for a flatter faced dog.
It did not take long for Trudy to figure out that there was a halo there to protect her…initially she barked a lot every time the halo hit something in front of her…but as she ran around the yard…a yard that is full of large toys…other dogs….rock walls and more… she quickly figured out she now had something keeping her from doing a face plant into objects. As I worked with Trudy with her halo I only did it for really short periods of time at first. Trudy very quickly figured out that she can now run safely…she is “hell in a halo” in the yard now.
Trudy’s first walk with her Halo!
Once Trudy was comfortable in the backyard with her halo I started taking her out of the yard. It did not dawn on me until the first try at a walk that Trudy has probably never been walked on leash. She had no clue what to do. I gave her as much slack as I could and let her rip. Typically when Trudy is in unfamiliar territory she is pretty cautious and moves really slow..as you can see in her video she was trotting around like she owned it.
I am super happy with the halo product. It will give sweet Trudy the opportunity to have adventure outside of her familiar territory without fear of getting hurt.
Trudy is such a blessing. I am the luckiest dog mom alive!
Last year when I adopted Rosie I did not know the reasons she had so many struggles. Rosie does not walk well, she had major struggles with eating, she can’t bark and she generally has a very weak constitution both emotionally and physically.
What I did know instantly was that she was an absolute sweetheart and I was meant to be her mom.
We started working on finding answers and solutions for Rosie right away. The biggest challenge was her difficulty with eating and frankly her plain lack of willingness to eat. I am happy to say that that situation has done a complete 360!
Rosie eats like a champ now. The biggest impact to improve her eating has been laser treatments on her jaw and throat. I purchased my own medical laser for the dogs last December (more on that later) and do treatments daily for her.
The laser treatments dramatically improved her ability to masticate food and swallow. It also made her willing to try new and different food which has helped me get some additional weight on her. We also take Rosie for acupuncture treatments. Her acupuncturist puts emphasis on her stomach points. I also started adding probiotics to her food. All of this combined has changed things dramatically for her. We are so happy with this progress!
We did these things while continuing to pursue medical answers to Rosie’s lack of muscle development. Our last hope was the neurologist. Unfortunately, the neurologist concluded that Rosie’s issues are genetic…the result of very bad breeding.
The neurologist recommended no further testing. She recommended never putting her under anesthesia unless it was life or death. She gave me the hard news that Rosie’s lack of muscle development is genetic and there is nothing medically that can be done for her.
Don’t get me wrong; Rosie has made a ton of progress since she arrived. Beside eating great she does walk more and her flexibility and strength have improved. But Rosie will never have a “normal” life. It is odd that over the last weeks of digesting the disappointing news from the neurologist that Rosie has made the most progress since I adopted her. Both Rosie and I seem to have had an attitude change about her health…acceptance and gratitude seem to be having a pretty profound impact.
Rosie’s neurologist advised we keep up what we had been doing; acupuncture, stretching exercises and laser and suggested trying a drug for neuropathic pain (which does already seem to improve her mobility a bit).
Its been several weeks since we visited the neurologist. At first I was so incredibly disappointed with the outcome. But as usual; the dogs are smarter and better adjusted than I. Rosie is fine. She is living a happy and full life; she spends not one minute worrying about “what could or should be”…she just “is” a happy girl.
Spring has sprung here and we are focused on living for each moment we have together. My girls (Petunia and Rosie), neither who can go for walks, are great wagon riding partners. They both are such grateful creatures…I love spoiling them.
I do my best to focus solely on life here and shut out the noise of the world outside of Misfit Manor. I am blessed that my work is right here at my home. But mostly I am blessed by all these sweet creatures who make every day a joyful one.
Blessings from our pack to yours,
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With so many dogs in my house and four vacation rental properties I feel like I spend half of my life cleaning. Believe it or not even with so many dogs my house is really clean…and I have a few secrets!
As much as I love pets…I can’t stand for my house to smell like pet. I also allow pets in one of my vacation rentals and there is no way I can let that apartment ever smell like pet. I have tried pretty much every cleaning product on the market and I have a few that I absolutely can’t live with out.
The first (and definitely my favorite product) is Angry Orange. Angry Orange is the best cleaning deodorizing product I have found and trust me I have tried almost everything. I add it to my bucket of mop water. I keep a spray bottle of water and Angry Orange for dusting. I sprinkle it on my steam mop. I also use it to clean and deodorize the outdoor pet yard. If I find I spot where someone has had an accident I clean it up with clorox first and then let Angry Orange sit on the spot for about 30 minutes and then wipe it up.
Besides the effectiveness of this product being really good it is non-toxic to pets and it is safe for tile and wood floors (which is all I have in my house).
The second product I cannot live with out is Zep Wall Cleaner Foam. Let’s face it…dogs shake slobber, water, food, boogies and other unmentionables off of themselves and on
to the walls. Wiping your walls with most products ruins the paint job on the wall. I use this wall cleaner in the house and in my vacation rentals and I LOVE IT. It doesn’t take the paint off and it cleans most marks off the wall. My vacation rentals constantly get scuffs on the walls from people dragging in suitcases, dog crates, etc….this product makes the walls look clean again. For the record I use really high quality paint from Sherwin Williams. I don’t know how this would work with a lower quality paint so if you have cheap paint on your walls I would spot test it first. In general I like all of ZEP’s products. I use their shower cleaner in my rentals (it is fabulous) and their glass cleaner works far better than say a product like Windex.
The third product I can’t live without is my steam mop. Because I don’t want harsh chemicals on my floors that are dangerous to my dogs I don’t use any product on the floors but Angry Orange. But Angry Orange really isn’t, at least for me, sanitizing enough. I vacuum and steam mop my floors every morning. Let’s face it…dogs scooch their buts across the floor, they drool, they drag lord knows what in on their feet…the floors just have to be sanitary. I use a Shark Steamer. Its the only steamer I’ve tried so I don’t have any opinion on how it works relative to others. It does last quite a long time though and it does the job. I have a weeks worth of pads for it and toss them in the washer with hot water to get them clean. I do sprinkle Angry Orange on the pads when I use them.
The last tool I use is my diffuser. I buy the Innogear diffusers. I usually don’t need it in the house but sometimes in my rentals someone will have cooked something that smells horrid or they have a dog in there that smells like it hasn’t bathed in a year. I run my diffusers in the apartments while I’m cleaning with a mix of orange oil and lavender oil. I’ll run them for a day if necessary. Along with a good cleaning the diffuser will eliminate most odors pretty quickly. A tip on using diffusers…they need to be cleaned. About every 10 times or so that I use them I empty them and put a little vinegar in the chamber for a few hours to clean the residue off from the oils.
For all the dog moms out there fighting the good fight on keeping your house clean I hope you find this helpful!
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I love every minute of taking care of my misfits but that does not mean it is always easy. I knew when Rosie arrived here that I was going to be dealing with some new challenges…not just on a day to day basis to keep her healthy and happy but also in terms of being faced with difficult decisions.
Rosie came here because her family could no longer care for her complicated health problems. She has serious neuropathy issues that make the simplest things hard; barking, walking, eating, swallowing. Over the 5 months that she has been here she and I have worked hard at getting her strength up. Eating is, at least for now, almost a normal activity (a far cry from where we were). She masticates her food and swallows like a champ! Walking is getting better but its inconsistent. Barking is rare. She is happy as hell though!
I have taken her to several veterinarians since she arrived. All types of tests have been done…none have provided answers. Most recently we went to a neurologist; this
was our last hope for a definitive diagnosis on what is wrong with Rosie. We have learned that almost nothing is definitive when a dog has signs of neuropathy. The conclusion though after this last round of tests (results came in today) is that Rosie’s issues are most likely genetic…which means there is really nothing available to treat her in traditional medicine.
I was given the option to do further (invasive) testing and/or to try some drug therapies typically used for immune disorders without doing further testing… the odds the treatments will help her (very low) do not outweigh the burden they will put on her. Rosie has a very weak constitution…both physically and emotionally. There are limits to what she can handle. The neurologist was not optimistic.
So I find myself in that unpleasant place in dog parenting…when I have to make difficult choices on my dogs behalf. We won’t be pursuing any further testing for Rosie nor will we do any aggressive treatment for an autoimmune disease she most likely does not have. We will continue doing what we have been doing.
Rosie has responded well to acupuncture, physical therapy and laser treatment and we will continue that. She is going to the guru of Chinese medicine in Louisville every week, she is eating great and we spoil her completely rotten. Dogs with serious neuropathy issues don’t typically have very long life spans…we are hopeful that she will defy the odds.
Several months ago Rosie did a session with a psychic. Rosie was very clear that she needed everyone around her to be positive. She just wants to be happy. She doesn’t want to be treated like a handicap dog…she wants to shake it off and move forward. So that is what we will do.
She is such a darling dog…she tugs my heart every day and I am so blessed that she is part of my little family of Misfits.
Each dog that comes to Misfit Manor teaches me something new. Rosie’s role is to teach me all about how to feed a dog that has difficulty eating.
Rosie has been with me for almost two months and she has a complex set of issues surrounding eating so I have had to learn fast. Rosie often gags and chokes when she eats. I figured out pretty quickly that she needs to eat sitting up (she also has no ability to bark). She has some sort of partial paralysis/neuromuscular issue with her mouth and throat.
Rosie also has difficulty masticating her food (chewing). I feed her very small bites of food…one at a time. I don’t give her anything that would be really difficult to chew. I also push her food back on her tongue slightly so she can chew it with her back teeth.
She also gets very tired during eating. Sometimes she is just a few bites into her meal and she is exhausted….her jaw muscles just seem to stop cooperating. She will try to eat but the food just falls out the side of her mouth.
Sometimes Rosie just seems to get bored with eating and refuses to pay attention to me or the food. She will actually bury her head in her booster seat to intentionally ignore me and her dinner.
She is also INSANELY PICKY. A dish she seemingly loved for breakfast…a few hours later she spits right back at me.
I love a challenge…especially when it comes in the form of such a sweet and beautiful dog. I have pulled everything I have out of my dog mom bag of tricks. Here are some of the ways I am handling getting enough calories in Rosie every day…
I feed her sitting up in a high chair and I hand feed her small bites of food one at a time. It’s time consuming…but it works. The gagging on food rarely happens and I can be certain just exactly what she is eating (rather than assuming she ate it but one of the other dogs actually ate it).
I feed her 4-5 several small meals per day. Because she seems to fatigue so fast from eating the small meals seem to work better. My goal is to get at least a cup of food in her each day (not including treats).
I add vitamins. Twice a day I crush a multi-vitamin into a spoonful of peanut butter. (I use PetMD multi-vitamins). Most days she is really enthusiastic about the peanut butter. When she is not cooperating I gently open her mouth and put the peanut butter on the roof of her mouth with my finger.
I added Lixotinic (an iron and B12 supplement) to raise her energy and appetite. While it took a few days so see an impact from the Lixotinic it has had a very noticeable impact on her appetite.
I break the dog mom rules. I am fairly militant about what my dogs eat. I cook their food from scratch…organic, fresh and homemade. With Rosie I have had to let that go sometimes. Rosie gets sick of food fairly quickly. There have been some days when I have cooked her three different meals before I could find something she would eat. If the only thing I can get her to eat is Macaroni & Cheese (true story)…then for that day I will concede and let her eat that.
I warm her food up. For some reason Rosie likes her food slightly warm.
I trick her! Rosie is always interested in what I am eating when I sit down at the kitchen table. On days when she is refusing to eat her meals. I let it go for awhile. I later pull her food out…warm it up and then sit down at my kitchen table and pretend I am eating it. She comes over to see what I have and I pretend I am giving her table scraps. What she refused to eat 1 hour ago…she is now gobbling down. I will also start giving some of her food to my other dogs if she is being difficult. That usually perks her interest in her food.
I couldn’t adore Rosie more than I do. I am learning a lot about working with a difficult eater. Rosie is very young (about 1 year old) so I am determined to work at finding the best solutions as this will be a lifelong struggle for her. If you have any dog mom magic tricks for getting difficult dogs to eat…please share!
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While for most people the build up to the holidays is about decorations, party planning, shopping, baking…and all sorts of other fun things…for me it’s about getting ready for cyber week and the flood of sales that come the weeks leading up to Christmas.
I have four vacation rentals properties that wrap around my house…that business keeps a roof over my head. But my online shops are how I support all of my Misfits. Last year my holiday season sales raised enough to cover nearly a years worth of vet bills (which is no small thing when you have senior and/or special needs cases).
I am so blessed to be able to work from home. It is rare that I ever have to leave my dogs
for more than a few hours. When I do head in to my home studio…all the babies come with me. I can take breaks during the day to get all the dog walking/play breaks done. I can always run out for vet appointments if I need to…it is really the best of both worlds. I couldn’t have scripted a better situation for all of us and I wake up every day excited to do my work and grateful for all the opportunities we have been able to take advantage of. I work hard; running multiple businesses, managing a very large property and caring for my rescues is like working 3 full-time jobs; I rarely rest. I also love it and couldn’t imagine my life any other way…
Learning to sell (well) online has taken years of hard work. I have had to learn product photography, online marketing, sourcing, branding, trademarking and more. I use professional business coaches that coach specifically online sellers; I never could have figured all of this out on my own. I have a fabulous group of cyber colleagues that I can
lean on for advice and moral support. Working alone from home can be…well lonely…(even when you have pets!).
I have two shops; Etsy and Amazon. The last two years my businesses have really transformed; in part due to starting a shop on Amazon…which has been a game changer for me. I never dreamed I would do the kind of volume I have done the last two years (especially for art). It has also connected me with a lot of really cool customers for my art. My anti-dog fighting art now hangs in several police stations around the country. I have also had several really neat features of my products done by bloggers and also HGTV (for my Pawty supplies).
I don’t even mind that my holiday season gets over taken by the busyness of my shops. There are a lot of fun things that I have to pass on this time of year because my shops often require 12+ hour days. But I still plan breaks to go see lights and to several of the outdoor holiday festivals in the area. I also find a lot of joy in wrapping up my holiday sales. Most of my sales this time of year are personalized pet ornaments or ornaments for dog moms. I enjoy making and sending little packages of joy to dogs and their moms.
If your looking for a gift ornament for a pet or pet lover in your life; check out my shops! You can use coupon code “PAWSOME” for 10% off your order.
Here is a gallery of some of my holiday ornaments they are all available for $14.99 (free shipping) at my shops:
I am aware that people are all over the board in regards to their views on consulting psychics/mediums. I have worked with several mediums over the last decade and have found it to be a great tool when working with my rescue dogs. All of the dogs that come to Misfit Manor come from rotten circumstances…sometimes I know
from their rescuers what the details of their lives were. Others I can only look at the physical and emotional condition they are in when they arrive and make assumptions. Using a medium when I am working with an unknown past has proved beneficial not just to me but even more so for the dog.
We recently took in a small senior mixed breed dog that was in the worst condition (physically and emotionally) of any animal that has come to our home. Beside the obvious issues; emaciated, anemic, flea bitten and infected skin, she was very aloof…almost seemed slightly feral…like she had absolutely no idea what to do with a human. She was not at all aggressive just simply overwhelmed by her new life circumstances. She did not bark, she was uncomfortable with eye contact and seemed generally uncomfortable. I began to think she was totally deaf because she didn’t seem to hear me call her unless I spoke really loud.
I consulted a medium to try to find out more about her and to help her understand that her new circumstances were in fact her new life. She began her session with first asking us if she was “in trouble”. We assured her she was not. She then made us both promise to never send her back to where she came from…that was her condition for communicating with us. Petunia described living conditions that were typical of a puppy mill. There is no need to dwell on the depressing things she told us about her life. We wanted to work with her to help her understand her new life. She told us she didn’t bark because she has never had a reason to. There was no one to hear her. She would like to bark if it was ok to bark. She told us that she understood she had a name now, Petunia, and she liked it. But the reason she does not always respond when I call her name is that she has never had a name before. Someone wanting her attention was new to Petunia as was someone calling her by a name. She was thrilled with her new circumstances but she was afraid they weren’t permanent and she asked for patience and time to learn to be a normal dog. She was oozing with gratitude and love for us she just wasn’t sure how to show it yet.
We explained to Petunia that she never had to worry about food, safety or love again. She was home, we love her and no one would ever harm her or neglect her again.
Within a few minutes of the session being over Petunia started barking. Her bark is darling…it sounds crackly and rough…and it sound more like “woo woo” than “woof”. I am guessing a barker that has never been used will take some time to sound more normal. I took Petunia out in the yard after her session to potty…she began to run and jump in a very large circle around the yard…like she was having her own celebration of the permanent change in her circumstances. It was the first showing of physical energy since she arrived. My heart overflowed with love and gratitude for her.
I have consulted mediums to get more information about health issues and to explain medical procedures to my pets; to explain when I am taking a trip (that I will be back) and to make better decisions about which pets live here permanently or which fosters want something different for a home.
Probably one of the most profound experiences we have had was with Snoopy. Post his let amputation Snoopy was in agony. Even with maximum pain medication Snoopy would wake from a deep sleep and scream (like really scream). He hadn’t moved or been bumped when these episodes happened and there was nothing we could do to comfort him. I posted on Facebook during one of his incidents about his crying and how my husband and I felt so helpless. A few minutes later, Snoopy sat up and his demeanor completely changed. I looked at my Facebook, one of the mediums we use regularly had read my post and communicated with Snoopy. She messaged me their conversation right away. Snoopy thought the pain was permanent and that he wouldn’t be able to walk again. He was very scared that this was it for him. She assured him the pain would go away and he would walk soon. Apparently he believed her because the screaming incidents never happened again after she spoke to him.
We have done both in-person and over the phone sessions; I find them equally good experiences. We have also done sessions with pets that have already crossed over.